Yeah, transactional email is one of those things you don’t respect until it hurts. We realized we needed something made for startups, not a hacked-together setup. I found this page while researching options and it explained a lot of what we were missing.
https://unione.io/en/email-service-for-startupsWhat clicked for me was the idea of integrating once and not babysitting deliverability every week. It’s not flashy, but reliability suddenly became way more important than “free”.