Hi there! I completely understand the struggle to balance caregiving and work. One option you might consider is the Consumer Directed Personal Assistance Program (CDPAP). I found this informative article at
https://prolifehc.com/post/10-Ways-to-G ... ily-Member. It covers several options to consider. Additionally, if you're in New York, working with a fiscal intermediary like Prolife Home Care could be a good step. They can help determine your eligibility to start with them.