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Post subject:  Posted: January 1st, 2010, 3:56 pm |
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Envied Alexander wrote: Totally agreed. I've dated a lot of football players in my time, and I really think it's the hitting. I mean... there's got to be something wrong with a guy if he'll strap on pads and run full force at someone with fifty pounds or more on him. Got to be.
Though I have noticed that baseball players are generally worse.
Haha, yes. I don't see the great attraction in football myself...I think it's kind of pointless. Probably another reason why this guy and I would NOT be good together. _________________ 
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Post subject: Posted: January 1st, 2010, 4:02 pm |
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Oh, now don't get me wrong. I LOVE football. It's possibly my favorite game in the world to watch. It's the dominant sport in my area of the country. I'm the only girl in my house save for my mom, so I find that learning to like and love the things that interest my brothers and my dad bring all of us a little closer.
And since every male I know is a football fan, it's always fun to watch them go starry-eyed when a pretty girl can quote stats right back at them. Freaks them out completely, I tell you.
I just firmly believe they are all suffering from some sort of brain damage 
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Post subject: Posted: January 2nd, 2010, 8:20 pm |
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I th ink ALL guys suffer from some sort of brain damage at one point or another...
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Post subject: Posted: January 3rd, 2010, 3:53 am |
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You guys have apparently never been around soccer players lol. They are crazy on the field and off the field. I know. I used to play on a boys city league. They did outrageous stuff just because they knew a ref wouldn't call it and then as soon as they were done with a game they would whip off their shirts (which I did enjoy  ) And do some retarded things. There has to be a lot of brain damage there. _________________  "Holmes is a little too scientific for my tastes -- it approaches to cold-bloodedness"
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Post subject: Posted: January 28th, 2010, 12:19 pm |
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^ Aerlinn you make me laugh
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Post subject: Posted: February 5th, 2010, 7:09 pm |
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Ahh I used to post here *shifts eyes*.
Anyways, I've been in a situation where I could not get over a guy. He was my first love. We only dated a few months in 10th grade but it took several years for me to let go of him. In fact, I didn't let go until I started dating my fiance which was in my sophomore year of University. Sometimes your heart feels things that just don't make since. Eventually feeling will pass and the right person will come along.
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Post subject: Posted: February 9th, 2010, 11:00 pm |
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A conversation about men? Correction, boys. Because even when they're 6 years older than you they still act like children sometimes (my current situation).
I would say that all guys can sometimes be 'walking cabbages' (great phrase btw ). Not that all of them are all the time. I've met some very decent guys. And of course, women can be pieces of work as well. Though generally not in the area of maturity level.
Quote: New question: how do you stop liking a guy? I've been trying to stop liking this guy at my church...but to no avail. If anything, I end up liking him more.
Haha, I'm right there with you. I have yet to find a solution to this problem. I have often liked guys while simultaneously thinking they're complete jerks.
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Post subject: Posted: February 9th, 2010, 11:24 pm |
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Aerlinn wrote: Currently, my wishlist for the perfect guy goes like this; male ballet dancer (not gay. Do they exist? Please?), wants to travel world, loves cats, knows his music, preferably plays instrument too (we could make music together! Oh god I am cheesy. ) either blue or green eyes, tall, lean but with muscles, loves reading, not very hairy (uuugh bad experiences here!), openminded, smart, more organized than I am (not very hard, that one), sense of humour. Hates soccer. Likes Sylvia Plath. Would never drag me to boring matches. Teehee. I don't think he exists. Maybe if I'd remove that one last item... xD Lawl. I had a boyfriend like this once. Yes, he was a ballet dancer... He was neutral to cats though, I think he liked dogs better... But, you pretty much described him exactly! One time he sang me Blackbird by the Beatles in French while he played his guitar. They are out there Aerlinn! Don't lose hope!
As for one the question about stopping to like a guy. That's hard. I think there's always a part of me that will always remember the guys that I liked....
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Post subject: Posted: February 12th, 2010, 2:13 pm |
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Oh dear, the fictional character crush thing... I think I've been doing that my whole life. It's almost therapeutic, in its own [s]somewhat sad[/s] little way. And the nice thing is, you can go from one crush to the next as you please.  _________________  Banner from Nellie
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Post subject: Posted: February 13th, 2010, 8:20 pm |
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Aerlinn wrote: Currently, my wishlist for the perfect guy goes like this; male ballet dancer (not gay. Do they exist? Please?), wants to travel world, loves cats, knows his music, preferably plays instrument too (we could make music together! Oh god I am cheesy. ) either blue or green eyes, tall, lean but with muscles, loves reading, not very hairy (uuugh bad experiences here!), openminded, smart, more organized than I am (not very hard, that one), sense of humour. Hates soccer. Likes Sylvia Plath. Would never drag me to boring matches. Teehee. I don't think he exists. Maybe if I'd remove that one last item... xD Lol, I don't think I'll meet a guy of my standards anytime soon XP I suppose I set them a little high but, I cannot be blamed can I? I'm not the typical woman and I don't want to be treated as a such. _________________ And as he looked into her eyes
Within the auburn of her hair
The trembling starlight of the skies
He saw there mirrored bright and fair
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Post subject: Posted: May 18th, 2010, 11:55 pm |
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Whoo, it's been a while since I have been here. Hewwo. 
Hmm... men.  I'm not really sure what I want really. I've never had experiences with anyone, so it's kinda hard for me to say.
But I think because I am someone who likes reassurance, and I am insecure at times and my confidence is also sometimes zero, and because I am always attracted to older people in real life and in films, I think that the age of a man is the only thing I can say with any certaintly. And there are so many men in their 40's who just look sooooo good... who wouldn't want to be with them? 
For me, generally, with older men there is a sense that they have been places and done things and know more about life than someone my own age, and therefore will be better at taking care of things, including me. And I like the idea that they in turn, would like to have to take care of someone rather than just being with someone, but actually being needed, if you know what I mean. Or maybe I read too many books.
And most guys my age are either wearing trousers round their ankles or just look too.. hip.. for my liking.
Either an older man, or someone who works and wears a nice suit all day. I like men in suits. Or if that fails, there is always my age old plan of the lonely millionaire LOTR lover.
As for marriage. Well I think marriage is proper, and I am old fashioned in my views of it. So I would like to get married one day I think. 
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Post subject: Posted: May 19th, 2010, 10:23 am |
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*pulls Aer out of hiding spot* It's certainly been a while since I've been here.
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Post subject: Posted: May 19th, 2010, 11:57 am |
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I think that drama is only entertaining on TV. I've never been in a relationship (I haven't even considered liking anyone), so I can't have much of an opinion about what it really is like. But because Im single, I have all my girlfriends come and ask me for advice, or to complain about their boyfriends. And I realize that its because of that constant need for drama. Sometimes, there really is a problem. In which case, you can either fix it or realize that its unfixable. But going around and making it everyone's business isn't going to help.
I do, however, believe in passion. But I believe that it goes hand in hand with love, and that there really can be such a thing as an exciting marriage. Does it mean that you have to work for it - yes. But its only exciting because there are periods of comfortable homeyness. I am a big fan of comfortable, amiable silence and snuggling on a snowy day. There's nothing wrong with routine if you understand that its what makes things exciting is breaking it.
I am a horrible, shallow person. And Im okai with it I don't think that I would consider someone if they weren't yummy. Oh, and quite close in age, but older than me. SEE. SO PICKY. No wonder I've always been single.
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Post subject: Posted: May 19th, 2010, 3:30 pm |
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I'm pretty picky as well. I'm not desperate to find a guy at all, so I may as well be selective. :]
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Post subject: Posted: June 21st, 2010, 10:20 pm |
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Gah. My views on this subject have changed so much as of late *hand bang on head*
A few months ago I used to not truly believe in marriage. I never thought that i would ever be able to commit to a person that completely.But about two months ago I met someone who completely changed that. I know I sound corny but I could really imagine myself with him forever. But at the same time my mind thwarts the idea because he is only my 2nd serious boyfriend.
But my ideas on children still stay the same. I don't want to have my own kids, persay. I believe that there are plenty of children out there in this world who may never find a parent figure to love them or even keep them safe so I? want to adopt as many of my kids as possible.
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