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Post subject:  Posted: November 10th, 2007, 9:51 am |
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^I'm soo sorry, Leggy! I'll most definitely include you in my prayers. Hope you feel better soon. *hugs*
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 12:56 pm |
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^^Yeah me as well! That really sucks!
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 1:12 pm |
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^I agree 100%. I hate abortion, but I'm not sure if we're really supposed to discuss this here...
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 1:21 pm |
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I think we're getting into deep water with the abortion comments. Maybe we should keep those to the minimum to keep things peaceful.
@ Mrs. Haldir: You're totally right. 21 and younger is way too young to have kids. At that time you might still be in college/university or even starting a first time job. Waiting is definitely the better option.
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 1:33 pm |
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^ I don't think 21 is too young to have kids. No age is too young as long as you're married. I want to get married young, maybe 18, and as soon as we're fully established as a couple, I want to start having kids... but I've got no clue what God's plan is.
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All I'm going to say about abortion is that it makes me cry.
Sobbing cry.
It used to not be like that, I used to shrug it off... but then I read up on www.abort73.com ... and I was in tears when I left. _________________ <center>
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 1:36 pm |
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^I know, it's so sad!
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 1:55 pm |
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@ Mrs. Haldir - Lol, yes I know what you mean. I can't say I'm into slash but I do sometimes find myself with a "problem" when I read other things. 
I am one who has heard of those rings. Go me! 
I have no idea what I want. I am a huge romantic, but I don't want a proposal over an expesive dinner with wine and red roses you know? And I don't want something over-the-top like having him write a message in the sky or something.
I don't see anything wrong with him going down on one knee. I mean it's not really expected if you suddenly turn round and he's there like that. No more expected than if you're walking with him and he whips out a ring. XD
I seriously don't know. Perhaps an argument would be best, like we're arguing over something that has something to do with fact he's been acting weird, because unknown to me, he's been trying to propose for ages, and then he just suddenly comes out with it right in the middle of the argument. That might be nice.
Red roses don't do anything for me either. But I would love to get flowers from someone, someday. I like flowers. 
Well I don't think 21 is too young to get married and have kids, depending on the person and what they want in life. Not everyone has to go to college or university (like me). I mean, if our parents and grandparents managed to sustain jobs and have children at a young age, then I don't see why our generation can't do the same. Admittedly, we are living in completely different times now, and things are different to 30, 50 years ago. But still, I think that if you are committed to having a child, and you don't just have one because you unexpectedly became pregant, as opposed to purposely becoming so, I don't see anything wrong with that.
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 1:59 pm |
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^I agree with you. I think some people, depending on their personality and maturity could do a fine job. I know a lot of couples that were married before they were 21, and they're doing a fine job. I think it depends on the person. Personally, I've seen so many rocky marriages I don't even think I want to get married, but that's just me.
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 2:03 pm |
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Well either marriage or just partnership, whatever really. If you feel you're in a relationship that's going to last and you don't want to get married, but you feel like you want a child, then that's pretty much the same thing.
I just look around sometimes and wonder how many young people who are pushing children in prams around, actually planned for that child and wanted it?
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 2:24 pm |
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^Yes but it was also their decision to have sex. In some cases. But in rape cases, that's completely different.
I meant a long-term relationship in general. Kids? That's a whole other matter. I definitely don't want to be a single parent.
That's another thing. Being a single mother. Man, that has got to be hard.
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 2:29 pm |
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Aye, that's true. But I would reckon it's more common to be the former than the latter.
Hmm... I would think it is... possibly more hard for a man than a woman.
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Post subject: Posted: November 10th, 2007, 2:34 pm |
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^Yeah, I would think so.
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2007, 2:48 am |
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*Urges everyone to steer away from Abortion, very thin ice...very very....*
Anyways,:teehee: It's interesting reading everyone's comments about marriage and getting married around 20...Considering I am 20 (21 in 5 months  ) I could never think of getting married right now...I feel so young...I don't think I would be able to fully commit to anything...there is so much out there to see and to do. I think that I won't get married until after college. However, I feel if the right person comes along, perhaps I'll rethink my previous statement
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2007, 3:58 am |
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I was thinking about marriage and having children quite a lot, you know.
I’m a dreamer-since I entered the teenage I always was thinking about my own future: education, family…I have my ambitions and I want to achieve them but… I don’t know…Sometimes I’m asking myself: “Why I always make plans for the future? Who knows what could happen till then” I realize that I’m growing up and form my own thinking. What I’m saying now –I may change my mind some years later.
I want to create a family. My dream is to receive good education then to find the man of my life and marry him and to have my own family-typical girl dream. But like I said I may change my mind later or it depends how my life will form in future.
I'm confused to be honest and I don’t know for sure what I want. For now goal #1 for me is to finish school and go to the university. Then I’ll see-I have bunch of time _________________
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2007, 9:21 am |
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My dream... finish school, spend a year at home just kinda learning how to run a household and everything. I'd be 18, then, old enough to go on the Doulos ship on a volunteer... who knows how long I'll be there or what I'll do after that... but someday I want to marry the right guy and start our own family and homeschool my kids.
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Post subject: Posted: November 11th, 2007, 4:30 pm |
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I'm no where near the marrying age, lol. I'm only 14, so I have a lot of time to think about it.
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