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Post subject:  Posted: November 12th, 2006, 12:26 am |
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Padawan wrote: Think about it, this is the BEST time of your lives!  You get to do things that married people don't get to do, and you are free to be single and love it. Singleness isn't all that bad!  _________________ <center> 
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Post subject: Posted: November 12th, 2006, 10:43 am |
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Relationships are really important to me....I had a relations hip real young and it scared me...but now I think I'm old enough to handle it!
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Post subject: Posted: November 12th, 2006, 9:11 pm |
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Scarlett, how's that emo kid you have a crush on coming along?
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Post subject: Posted: November 12th, 2006, 9:24 pm |
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Well, I need some help.
There is this lady I work with, she has a son who is 6 months younger than me. Now, she thinks I am a nice girl, so she told another co-worker of mine(when I was not there at the moment) that she would like to "hook-up" her son with me!The co-woker told me and I was so shocked, because Kodi, the boy on subject, would not be good with me for many, many reasons. One of them being he is younger than me, but thats not the biggest one. I fear that his mom will come up to me one day and ask me to go out with him, or I am afraid Kodi might ask me. He is not right for me, this is glaringly obvious that everyone says so but her. And I don't know Kodi's thoughts on the matter. I don't know what to say if that comes up. My parents would never hear of it either. I'm only 16 and don't want a relationship right now. Especially not with someone who would be wrong for me. Help is vastly appreciated. Thanks for hearing me out!
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Post subject: Posted: November 12th, 2006, 9:30 pm |
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Dating... gah, definitely not a walk in the park. I went through one relationship last year with a very nice and courteous guy. After a while we just found niether of us felt "that way" towards eachother anymore, so we made a mutual agreement to split. No tears, no hurt feelings involved. It was over. Thankfully we're still friends, and only had to go through a tad bit of awkwardness at the beginning of our newfound friendship after the break up.
But I agree with Gwen. Don't date til you really know what love is. Secondary school is not the place nor the time to be dating. Just wait. I promise you'll be happy you did.
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Post subject: Posted: November 12th, 2006, 9:39 pm |
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Galad, I think that, first and foremost, you should be honest. Choosing the people you date is a right, and having that right violated isn't fair to you, even if you're to polite to openly state you don't like the guy. I think you should avoid bringing it up, give Kodi's mom a few hints here or there. If she still presses this on you, go ahead and tell her that you don't think you're ready. Also, you might want to ask her why she thinks Kodi's perfect for you.
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Post subject: Posted: November 12th, 2006, 9:44 pm |
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Yeah, I think that would be the right thing to do. Kodi is nice, but is into wierd stuff  Thanks Lady Dark Moon.  There for me again.  _________________ <center>~*The Not-Too-Much-Obsessed-With-Nature A-U Gentle-Woman*~<center>
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Post subject: Posted: November 12th, 2006, 9:52 pm |
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into weird stuff? care to elaborate _________________
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Post subject: Posted: November 13th, 2006, 1:32 am |
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Well, the music that he listens to, like Disturbed, slipknot and he likes really dark and wierd animes too. His mom had him but she never married his dad, so he was raised a bit differently than me.  _________________ <center>~*The Not-Too-Much-Obsessed-With-Nature A-U Gentle-Woman*~<center>
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Post subject: Posted: November 13th, 2006, 5:13 pm |
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Well, LDM got there before me.
Honesty is the best way to go with this, if you cant get rid of it by ignoring it, then wehn Kodi or his mom asks you, it may be hard, i know, especially since you've got such a sweet disposition. But you have to flat out tell her "no, hes not right for me so on and so forth...." what you told us here. :]
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Post subject: Posted: November 13th, 2006, 6:54 pm |
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Yeah, it is hard for me to say no to anything. But I have never been confronted with this problem before. Thanks alot guys, I really appriciate your advices.  _________________ <center>~*The Not-Too-Much-Obsessed-With-Nature A-U Gentle-Woman*~<center>
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Post subject: Posted: November 14th, 2006, 9:23 pm |
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Aww no problem!
so....topic? anyone?
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Post subject: Posted: November 14th, 2006, 9:27 pm |
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Unfortunately Galadhrim_arrow, I can't give you any advice. I'm really sorry. But I can say that when matters turn for the worst, tell him and his mother that it will not work out.
I don't know, Ms. Gamgee. Do you have any good topics?
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Post subject: Posted: November 15th, 2006, 4:32 pm |
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Aww, don't worry about it, Frost lord. And as for topic, do you think that 17 is a good age to start a relationship? Smack me if this has been done before. I think that 18 is a good age. _________________ <center>~*The Not-Too-Much-Obsessed-With-Nature A-U Gentle-Woman*~<center>
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Post subject: Posted: November 16th, 2006, 4:03 pm |
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I think 18 is a good age. I also think that college is a better place to date than highschool, because everyone is more mature. Plus, since there are majors in college, you might find someone who likes to do what you like!
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Post subject: Posted: November 16th, 2006, 8:02 pm |
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After you've gotten settled into Uni or college [around age 17/18] I think is a good age. You're mature by then, and you have a definite idea of what love is, and you know how to handle those situations. That's when I think people should start dating. Relationships always last longer at that age too.
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