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Post subject:  Posted: November 22nd, 2006, 1:29 pm |
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I didn't learn much about it either. A lot of the time, for several years, some of the things my contemporaries talked about went straight over my head. I understand most of it now though. And I think that attitude of telling a child the minimum they need to know is the right thing. just so they can understand what is happening to them.
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Post subject: Posted: November 22nd, 2006, 2:07 pm |
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Yes! Tell them in little bits, so that they have a child-hood and become adults when they need to be.
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Post subject: Posted: November 22nd, 2006, 2:23 pm |
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I come from a relatively open family and me'n'mom have been talking about gwroing up and pregnancy for ever since. I was 6 and I knew what periods is, I knew how a child 'is made' and lots of stuff concerning adolescence/adulty
I think it's very good to inform your kids about things like that and have as little taboos as possible because it won't do anything good if you refuse to talk about growing up and such
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Post subject: Posted: November 23rd, 2006, 11:24 pm |
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Exactly Elfe. Too many parent's are uncomfortable talking about the facts of life with their children. This makes growing up extremely hard on the child, especially if they haven't been forewarned as to what they should expect. Growing up is something parents should be open about and willing to share their experiences of, not taboo that we keep in the dark and never speak of. Growing up is a wonderful thing if you know what to expect.
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Galadhrim_Arrow wrote: Tell them in little bits, so that they have a child-hood and become adults when they need to be.
I love this statement. 
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Post subject: Posted: November 23rd, 2006, 11:33 pm |
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Post subject: Posted: November 24th, 2006, 12:43 am |
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Yeah!
I love it that my was able to talk to me about puberty and stuff.
But to tell you the trtuh the whole "where babies come from" and all things related to that topic, I learned in school. From stupid conversations my freinds have. I actualyl was, i guess you can say, exposed, to these conversations as far back as the third grade, but didnt exactly pay attention. I learned it all in 6th grade, when I entered middle school. And had older poeple riding my school bus. Yeah....I lost all innocence in these things in the 6th grade.
I think it's sort of sad, for all kids and stuff.
*sigh*
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Post subject: Posted: November 24th, 2006, 1:39 am |
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People talk about sex (which should be a good thing from what others have told me  ) too dirtily, mark it as a bad and improper thing.. Nah. We need a way to make descendants and survive methinks.
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Post subject: Posted: November 24th, 2006, 2:12 am |
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I totally agree!
But when you learn about it from people besides adults and parents, and you learn from people at school, who are talking about it dirtily.
It's not the impression you want to have.
Of course it would help if we kept making little peoples. :]
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Post subject: Posted: November 24th, 2006, 2:16 am |
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Yeah.
And those who talk about it like that usually have no clue on the whole thing...
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Post subject: Posted: November 24th, 2006, 10:52 am |
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True. I got my little education from school (both reliable and unreliable sources). My mother seemed unwilling to contribute anything to it (not that I asked or anything). Oh, well...what's done is done and at least I know how life begins.
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Post subject: Posted: November 25th, 2006, 5:51 am |
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just like to point out:
WE'RE ON OUR 100TH PAGE! WELL DONE EVERYONE!
I hope this club has helped you!
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Post subject: Posted: November 25th, 2006, 1:48 pm |
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I'd just like to pop in and say FELICITATIONS on page 100 _________________ 
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Post subject: Posted: November 25th, 2006, 2:31 pm |
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Lovely!
We've got 100 pages, that's awsome!!
Everyone remembers how and why this club was started right?
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Post subject: Posted: November 25th, 2006, 3:37 pm |
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No, I'm afraid I don't....How did this club came to be?
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Post subject: Posted: November 25th, 2006, 3:41 pm |
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Ah, it came about when long ago the A-U Gentlemen's club started, the girls started up thier own A-U Gentlewomen's Society.
A dipute began between the two clubs: spying and evilishly things.
Until finally, Scarlet Storm started the club to reunite both male and female members and bring peace once again to the "Clubs" Sub-forum.
haha, that was fun. 
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