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Post subject: Posted: August 16th, 2007, 12:10 am |
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Elenthari wrote: I guess so..lol My father is the only man in the family and hopefully he has a good...aim.(lol never though I'll say that  ) but we(me and my mom) have the same prob as ElenyaAr-Feiniel-my dad forgets to flush too... 
Wow, that just sounded weird.  You think the father would remember something like that but then again, I don't have a dad around so I really wouldn't know.
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Post subject: Posted: August 16th, 2007, 10:08 am |
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Joined: 10 July 2005 Posts: 23149 Location: Where there are handsome heroes and sexy villains.. all that need some lovin' ;) Country:
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Well I'm sorry if some of you of find the topic "ewwww gross" but it actually was a serious question. If any of you actually took the time to read how this topic got started, then you will see it was started in all seriousness.
And yes, I do think the topic is girl related in as much as how do females cope with males in their family who at the age of whatever, still can't use the toilet corectly. It is an age old question I believe.
And it's quite easy to change the topic without completely letting everyone know you hate it. You simply say "hey, what do you all think about....."
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Post subject: Posted: August 16th, 2007, 11:03 am |
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Joined: 03 June 2005 Posts: 13144 Location: Heaven: Rockin' with Severus Snape Country:
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Eh.. can't say I've ever had that problem, as I don't have any brothers and I use a different bathroom than Dad most of the time.
Do any of you ever have problems with stereotyping in your household. I know in mine, only my Mum and I do the laundry because it's considered a woman's job. 
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Post subject: Posted: August 16th, 2007, 11:33 am |
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Post subject: Posted: August 16th, 2007, 12:23 pm |
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Joined: 03 June 2005 Posts: 13144 Location: Heaven: Rockin' with Severus Snape Country:
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Yup.  One for my mum and dad and one for Becca and I. The toilet is separate of course, but we've still got two of those as well.
It's the same way with the dishes. They don't get done unless my sister and I do them. Dad doesn't have to do anything really. It's very reminiscent of the war days in our house.
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Post subject: Posted: August 16th, 2007, 12:31 pm |
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Post subject: Posted: August 16th, 2007, 12:57 pm |
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Joined: 03 June 2005 Posts: 13144 Location: Heaven: Rockin' with Severus Snape Country:
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Lol. I guess it's nice not having to wait on others if you really need to go or whatever, but it does seem a bit excessive really.
I can imagine.. if only I were as lucky, in a different way of course. Mum is quite insistent on my sister and I learning how to run the house. She's always of the mind that men don't do anything useful. She loves my father dearly, but sometimes it's frustrating to watch him do nothing while we spend the day laundering or something like that. 
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 12:13 am |
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Joined: 24 February 2007 Posts: 1811 Location: In my library, unconvering dark and mysterious secrets...
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I totally agree. My dad will be sitting on our cushy, nice, leather couch while we (my mom, sisters, and I) mop the kitchen floor, vaccum the whole house, do the laundry...I could go on forever.
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 4:32 am |
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Joined: 08 April 2007 Posts: 7483 Location: Hiding in your closet =P Country:
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^How familiar!My dad is always watching TV while my mom and I clean the whole house.I'm going out with the dogs.Even when I'm too tired for walks he says:"The dogs are yours-you must take care of them."Yes,I agree,that I have to take care of them but I need some help don't I?
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 9:50 am |
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Joined: 03 June 2005 Posts: 13144 Location: Heaven: Rockin' with Severus Snape Country:
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See, my dad only believes he has to do jobs he's done his entire life. The most he does is vacuum and mop. The laundry and dusting only get done if we, that is to say Mum, Becca, and I, do it ourselves. I love my father dearly, but sometimes he gets on my last nerve!
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 10:21 am |
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Joined: 24 February 2007 Posts: 1811 Location: In my library, unconvering dark and mysterious secrets...
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You're lucky he even does that much...
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 10:35 am |
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Ilmarë Tintallë wrote: See, my dad only believes he has to do jobs he's done his entire life. The most he does is vacuum and mop.
Las is right-you are lucky!I do love my dad very much(The love to the parents is something that couldn't be measured,I think.) but I do believe also that it wouldn't be harmful to help in the housework.
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 12:09 pm |
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Joined: 03 June 2005 Posts: 4293 Location: In my Mind... ?
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My dad makes us do all the chores. I don't have the best relationship with him, and that is one of the biggest issues. It may sounds stupid but it's really bad!
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 12:17 pm |
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Joined: 24 February 2007 Posts: 1811 Location: In my library, unconvering dark and mysterious secrets...
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I've never been really close to my dad. Though I do agree he's the best dad a girl could have, and I love him more than he knows...
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 1:50 pm |
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Joined: 23 May 2006 Posts: 1406 Location: Snape's Dungeon.
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i love my dad bunches. We have a good relationship. We get on eachothers nerves sometimes tho. i guess we're just too much alike? maybe not...  Back to the house cleaning: my dad does his own laundry (prolly because my mom will accidentally dry them on Hi and they'll shrink... lol!) but he also helps me and my sisters with the dishes. My mom and I do most of the other stuff. 
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Post subject: Posted: August 17th, 2007, 6:04 pm |
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Joined: 02 October 2006 Posts: 2145 Location: the south, USA
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JF, Yes, it really is not good. In my opinion it is ridiculas (no offence meant to any males who might be sneaking in here and reading though)...cleaning the toiler lid should not have to be on my list of things to do. It just gets so annoying.
I really do not understand it either. (sighs and shakes head)
Ilmare Tintalle, You have two bathrooms?! Wow, I am so envious. lol Good for you that you have to bathrooms though.  My house only has two working bathrooms and I live with six other people.
Yes. Well, sort of. Mostly it is just expected that the women do any kind of work that is to be done at the house or at the store. Shopping, house cleaning (such as washing dishes, picking up, washing windows, etc etc), laundry, most cooking (not all though), taking the trash out, and working on most appliances (except for the dvd/tape player and the vehical...most of the time) is work that falls to the women in my house hold. (shakes head and sighs) I love my Ada with my whole heart and he is a great,nice person but most of the house hold work falls to me and the rest of the women in my house. (sighs)
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