*nods*   
what she said.  *points up*
lol
Basically the way I understood it but I may add this.
I figured she was talking about Theoden not letting her do things like fight and such as mentioned above.  I may just be reading into it but i got the the idea that she had been "supressed" her whole life and forced to live a "ladies" life when she wanted to fight, adventure, and be free to do her own will.
Just the idea I had when i saw the scene... *shrugs*
And while I'm here let me say welcome to the forum!!!! 
